3 Years

Check the milestones your child has reached by their 3rd birthday. Take this with you and talk with your child’s healthcare professional at every visit about the milestones your child has reached and what to expect next.

What You Can Do With Your 3-Year-Old

You can help your child learn and grow. Talk, read, sing, and play together every day. Below are some activities to enjoy with your 3-year-old child today. 

CHECKLIST

Movement & Physical Development

  • Climbs well
  • Runs easily
  • Pedals a tricycle (3-wheel bike)

Social & Emotional

  • • Smiles spontaneously, particularly at people • Likes to play with people • Copies some movements and facial expressions – smiling and frowningCopies adults and friends
  • Shows affection for friends without prompting
  • Takes turns in games
  • Shows concern for a crying friend
  • Understands the idea of "mine" and "his" or "hers" 
  • Shows a wide range of emotions
  • Separates easily from mom and dad
  • May get upset with major changes in routine
  • Dresses and undresses self

COGNITIVE (LEARNING, THINKING, PROBLEM SOLVING)

  • Can work toys with buttons, leavers, and moving parts
  • Plays pretend with dolls, animals, and people
  • Does puzzles with 3 or 4 pieces
  • Understands what "two" means
  • Copies a circle with pencil of crayon
  • Turns book pages one at a time
  • Builders towers of more than six blocks
  • Screws and unscrews jar lids or turns door handle

LANGUAGE & COMMUNICATION

  • Follows instructions with 2 or 3 steps
  • Can name most familiar things
  • Understands words like "in", "on", and "under"
  • Says first name, age, and gender
  • Names a friend
  • Says words like "I", "me", "we", and "you" and some plurals (cars, dogs, cats)
  • Talks well enough for strangers to understand most of the time
  • Carries on a conversation using 2 to 3 sentences

Ask For Help if Your Child...

  • Falls down a lot or has trouble with stairs 
  • Drools or has very unclear speech 
  • Can’t work simple toys (such as peg boards, simple puzzles, turning handle) 
  • Doesn’t speak in sentences 
  • Doesn’t understand simple instructions 
  • Doesn’t play pretend or make-believe 
  • Doesn’t want to play with other children or with toys 
  • Doesn’t make eye contact 
  • Loses skills they once had
Tell your healthcare provider if you notice any of these signs of possible developmental delay for this age. You can also talk with someone in your community who is familiar with services for young children in your area. Try the FCWN Navigator by emailing [email protected] or calling 403-995- 2607.